From a female blog reader:
Hi… Please I prefer if my ID is hidden
When I was young I told myself that @ a certain age I will be one man babe….along d line I went into setting my goals (relationship wise), I’ve dated guys who were Christians and just two Muslims.
The Christian guys I have dated so far, don’t do the things that should be done in a relationship, it is either one is lazy, rude, had nonchalant attitude,etc my relationship does last long,so have been searching for the right one.
Last 2-3years I dated another Christian guy all in the name of “religion” the guy is ohk but it seems to me that I was d one driving d relationship, d guy can’t do anything without involving me, I am always the one trying to put him in shape, if am nt around him he looses force, you know, am always the one trying to make things work…and each time I do this I always brings it to his notice that he is not doing what a real man should do, for this years I kept on complaining, still no changes. I had no other option then to break up with him.
Right now am in relationship with one of d Muslim guy, we’ve dated before we had issue so we broke up and now we r back together and he wants to settle down with me, yes of course this guy is not giving me all that I want but he is trying, he gets pissed @ me when am wrong, apologize when he is wrong, he is very hard working,he encourage me to be independent, he is even trying to fix me(business wise),I am not saying he is perfect but he is trying to be a perfectionist,with him I can feel a true relationship. Personally I don’t have any issue getting married to him,thou he as made his intentions clear that he won’t allow me go to church, and I have concluded within me that I Will change to his religion(I didn’t tell him this) as far as I am concern we are good to go but I don’t think my family will b in support because he is a Muslim.
Pls I need advice what do you think I should do? No insult pls your opinion and advice will be useful pls.