From a female blog reader:
Why did he use me and destroyed me like this? I hate him?
So I ve been with my bf for 1& half yrs now. We’re both here in the U.K. He was sweetest, caring loving guy at the beginning. I had couldn t ask for a more perfect bf. He was not my type look wise he’s not that cute but I thought he had a nice personality & I fixed him up to my taste. He started taking about us getting married & he got me a ring. I started doubting him cause Id always dream of him cheating or leaving me. I saw dirty texts on his phone & he confronted him & he said it was nothing & would stop talking to the girl. I was so upset & in shock I though I could confide in his mother WRONG! his mum called me jealous & childish. He was always checking my phone & made a huge fight about my ex calling me. I felt like he never trusted me but I m the most caring, loving & honest gf. He started getting angry at me & picking fights & faults & dumped me last week. He gave me his tablet & yesterday I found naked pics & dirty texts that he has been having a relationship with the same girl in a different country for 5years, he has been sending her money & talking to her daily & telling her he loves her on Facebook chat & the girl knows about me. I feel so numb. I loved him, respected him & never did anything to him, we were planning for our wedding, I took him to my family. I m so broken I don t know what to do. Should I take his ring & tablet to him & let him know I know what he s been doing all along?