Please help! My girlfriend still sees her ex

Please help! My girlfriend still sees her ex

From a male blog reader:

Am 30 single, av not rlly dated an younger lady and get that happiness maturity and understanding , mostly dated older lady and I rlly enjoy each and every , not for money cos am cool with what I have, met this gal in January, she is all I wanted in a type of partner, she broke up with her ex of 5yrs last DEC but they have always been best of friends and still best of friends till date and she can’t hide anything from him, even when we 1st kiss she told him, we got so close and I like her so much but at every time I try to talk her out of him she turns it down, she went seeing him weeks back and they had sex, and she told me they did, i asked if they are back together? She said No they just friends , she want us to be friends and she is not letting go of him and I rlly can’t help or stand that, want a serious happy relation with someone i can settle down with. Rlly need advice thanks