From a female blog reader:
I’ve been dating this guy for almost two years, he’s a good guy loving but whenever he’s angry he curses the hell out of me like, there was a day he was teaching me how to drive and during the driving lessons on the road I was so scared he knows I’m scared but as I was driving maybe not impressive enough for him he started yelling at me and saying things like ” se aiye nse e ni(are witches doing you?), se won shepe fun e ni(did they curse you), o ti dull juu( I’m too dull), bawo lo se graduate ni university ( meaning how did I graduate from the university).
Oh God, I was so angry that day but I didn’t say anything I prefer to express myself through text instead of facing him coz Im scared he might slap or beat me one day.
He just did again recently because he described we meet in a location and I didn’ get the area the way he described it to me I’m a learner in driving.
Do you know this guy parked beside got out of his car and started yelling at me again and cursed me again.
He normally tells me that is the way he is that I should accept him for who he is but I’m scared that if I get married to him he might start beating me.
The funniest thing is he doesnt apologize after saying those things, I end up running back to him and even apologizing and if at all he’s going to communicate with me he calls to tell me he doesn’t think we are compatible if I can’t accept him for who he is infact he acts like nothing happened except I talk about it.
I’m this type of person who would just go silent after he curses me out by not calling him for days and sometimes he won’t still call me back.
I love him but I don’t know what to do