From a female blog reader:
Hello Somtoo blog i’m a young lady of 25yrs I have been dating this guy 31 years for three years. I met him at a wedding of my cousin and we took it from there till. My problem is that this guy is not working and i don’t even know how he feeds. I have cleared all my accounts for him. He talks about marriage alot and i don’t even know how he will afford it. My parents know i have a bf and are giving me pressure to introduce him to the family. My parents want a glamorous wedding because that is how it has always been in the family and i want that too. How do we afford this I can’t even tell my parents he is jobless. I love this guy very much and i don’t want to disappoint him myself and my family. What do i do since i’m due for marriage and my parents are not expecting anything below their standard. Am i wasting my time and his?