From a female blog reader:
I am 21years old and my partner is 25 he is Nigerian (Yoruba) and I am not. He has a temper that irritates me so much, he will get angry over the littlest things and somehow it will be my fault (even if it is not) I spoke to one of my Nigerian friends and she says that if your not a Nigerian women then you can not handle a Nigerian man (which I think is Bullsh*t) so that’s problem number 1. Problem number 2 is I have never ever denied him sex I love having sex so I never so no BUT when I do say no then it really means i am not in the mood for it AT ALL. When I denied it sex for the first time he started getting annoyed, saying if I don’t give it to him who will and asking me if I want him to get it from elsewhere also making silly empty threats like next time I want sex he will not give it. Please I don’t understand this attitude. Am i in the wrong for denying him sex this one time because am not in the mood?