My boyfriend borrowed money from me to buy Valentine gifts for another lady

My boyfriend borrowed money from me to buy Valentine gifts for another lady

From a female blog reader:

My boyfriend Abi fiancé because he has giving me ring ,he borrowed 200k from me last week,saying it was for his younger sisters school fees and he does not want her to drop out of school. 3 days ago, I saw some women things at the back of his wardrobe,like human hair,wrist watch,few dresses and slipas, and some Small small women things. I was so excited that boyfriend will surprise me this Valentine season,so I even helped him arranged it and was waiting patiently for 14th. Because of what I saw I had to rush to the market to go buy him an expensive suit to surprise him for the Val too. But today I stumbled on a chat, I did not see the complete chat, it was like he ended it and the last message dropped, where the girl on his face book was telling him that she is a size 12 and the kind of perfume she uses,the first place my mind went to was my 200k,and I quickly rushed to the gifts, that was when I tried one of the top and it was too big for me, it was a size 12 and am a size 10. I am so very upset right now, boiling like hot water. Please should I confront him or just be patient and see if my mind is playing tricks on me? I feel like breaking his head with a bottle, and let not just be my money he is using to sponsor a girl this Valentine because I will kill some body .