From a female blog reader:
Just saw your page on Instagram, great job I must say. I’ve been contemplating whether or not to send this out but I’m too curious for a second opinion so… I’m 25yrs old, in Canada, working for one of the biggest banks as a Financial Planner. My love life however has been a mess so I really need help figuring things out. I’m a big believer in building when it comes to relationships. Since I do well enough for myself, I really don’t ask for much in my partner. So far, I’ve been in 3 different relationships that I thought was leading somewhere but I was wrong. Now all of these guys are smart, funny, matured with their own jobs. In the 1st relationship, guy would spend his money on anything but me. It wasn’t much of a deal breaker cos I was (still am a little bit) that “miss-independent” kinda girl but what made things worse was that dude was always borrowing $$$ without paying back, wanting me to chip in on everything, even my “surprise” bday party was paid for with my money. The 2nd one was a little too matured, always reasoning like a grandfather, very laid back(I mean c’mon let’s run around a little) also, he’s always carrying everyone’s issues on his shoulders all the while neglecting me, thinks my opinion is childish and likes borrowing as well. and the third is a spendthrift. Dude spent N500K (of my $$) in 3 months with absolutely nothing to show for it. At this point am just confused. Should I be looking out for only rich guys now or what? Please help me post this cause I need answers I’m going nuts over here.