From a female blog reader:
Please I don’t want my identity disclosed. I just completed 26years,I work,stay in a comfortable 2bed room apartment and pay my bills,I have been dating this guy for 3years plus since I was in uni, but I broke up with him when he proposed to me with a customised car and diamond ring not because I didn’t care about him but the thing was that we had serious issues that made me cry,feel lonely and sad which I know if I marry him I would cheat on him, cause he has no time for me and marriage wouldn’t change that,he has been everything to me especially finance, he owns a company which I work for till date.I thought I was at the point I’ve always prayed for in life I frequent his mansion and lived there anytime I want at a point I was next in position in his company aside him,i made decisions and had access to millions of naira cause he sent me money to my personal account to manage the company but little did I know all these can’t give genuine happiness, I needed attention,care,friendship n good love making which we hardly do cause he is barely in the country,or even when he is, he is chasing money. Ohk then I met this guy Feb last year he will be 35 Oct, as a matter of fact he had all I was lacking expect the money,not that he is broke he has two luvly cars and was quite comfortable but can’t be compared to my ex. The problem is I feel he has been testing me as I’m almost giving up,he hardly gives me cash but rather complains each time that he is broke,he can travel out anytime if he wants to,most times he would even complain no money to buy fuel,shave or even do the thinnest thing for me,this really hurts me,i have talked to him severally about it that this is pulling me apart,don’t get me wrong I’m not saying he should take up my whole responsibilities cause I still work but his reaction to things about me, him and US especially monetary begins to make me wonder cause from all I know he can do all of them if he wants to but choose not to on few times he would say he has learnt from his past and Doesn’t want to make a mistake, we stay in same town with his parents and siblings yet I haven’t met them in person,though I have spoken with them over the phone ,seriously I don’t have anytime to waste with a guy as I love him no doubt but I have to make some decisions,what should I do……..try talking to him again ,break up with him as1year is enough for his mind games, or jst keep hoping please I need or even give him more time mind u next month will make us 1yr and I have never cheated on him,advice as I truly wanna be with him .