“I got pregnant for my boyfriend and I don’t know what to do”

"I got pregnant for my boyfriend and I don't know what to do"

From a female blog reader:

Have been dating my bf for 4yrs now,he grad 2012 and after service his parents has been forcing him to go do MSC abroad,he has applied different times and has gotten in but he never goes for it bcos he doesn’t want to leave me behind,bcos of that his mum has been frustrating him with life just so he could change his mind,and yes have seen all the admission letters.she has made sure he doesnt do any business,he is 24 and am 22.just yesterday I did a pt and found out I was pregnant.from then since now have almost had accident more Dan twice bcos have been over thinking,its just 2weeks old.he has asked me to remove it.that when we are ready we will both have babies,bcos right now he doesn’t even have a job,but I have a business fetching me money and I just graduated this year.am so confused right now I don’t know what to do,first am scared about complications and my mind aiint in for it,I really don’t want to,but on the other hand we possibly cant handle the responsibility and my parents will disown me if they find out.he has asked me not to ruin his life more with a child.pls no insults cos right now am in a great mess.all I need is matured advice on what to do.tnkz.