From a female blog reader:
You are doing a wonderful job, please keep me anonymous. Im 23 and awaiting service this year, I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 2years now and our relationship has been a beautiful one with quarrels and all, he always talks about having a future with me and I sincerely want that too, but my problem here is my skin, in secondary sch i was called Esau because of the hairs on my legs, so i shaved the hairs on my legs and when they grew back it became thicker and spikey, i stopped shaving but when it grows it makes me so uncomfortable. My boyfriend doesn’t know about this because i havent opened up to him about it, i keep removing the hairs each time i go visiting and its tiring. This makes me push him away each time he comes close to me so he doesn’t feel it and its really disturbing and makes me depressed. I keep waiting for d right time to tell him about it but I’m scared if i tell him he would leave me. I would be meeting his folks officially later this year, I don’t know if i should tell him now or just be quiet till the day he finds out himself. Please advice me.