From a female blog reader:
I dated my ex for 5years. Just after our introduction I noticed something different about him,. Before then he told me so much about his ex and how much he hated her. But after 5years just when we were close to saying I DO. My Nigga started fucking his ex. I got to know. I saw her pic , calls and sms. Dude didn’t deny it. He told her about me but promised to breakup with me for her..He didn’t use me on his dp on my birthday. But used her on hers and wrote happybirthday baby. I was stupid then sha. SMH. He said he didn’t love me anymore but he loved her And he just cared about me and promised he was always going to be there cause I am a wonderful person. Mind you this lady is 30 his age mate. I was heartbroken. I didn’t know how to face the world,. My family was embarrassed. This dude said he didn’t love me but he came to my office constantly. He got angry when he saw me with other guys. He wanted to fuck me at any opportunity he got. I freed him allowed him to marry his ex. Even though their reunion wasn’t upto a year..his Dad disowned him cause of the girl. His marriage not upto a year and he want a divorce already saying he is not happy in his marriage. The lady jazzed him and loves me and can never love his wife. She doesn’t make him happy like I do. She doesn’t know the right things to do for fun and bla bla bla. Me on the other hand don’t want him back. But I haven’t got any man better than him. Sometime I still do long call convo with him. Do lunch break, give him advice when he needs one. Cause my present bf doesn’t even behave like he loves me, doesn’t respect me like my ex. That one can go days without talking to me,. Even when he chats me up he doesn’t ask how I am doing. We haven’t been intimate since I stared dating him though. While my ex on the other hand is crazy about me. Still performs his bf duties. Aside love making. What should I do ? Please I really want to settle down. And trust me I am very beautiful with Good character. YES.!! Good character. I know I have got a good heart. Every guy that sees me is scared cause they think I am already taken. I want to settle down pls. I am losing it.