From a female blog reader:
My name Shamsa and my issue is not relationship issue but an issue with my next door neighbour. This woman is married and living her normal life until I rented a room next to her. Ever since I went to that house , I have automatically become this woman’s rival by then my fiance has travel and no man comes around me except my kid brother so I was thinking that as single as I am she might think I will snatch her hubby which is never in my mind. When ever I Cook ,this woman will cook the same food I cooked, when ever am frying meat , she will force this man to buy meat before he comes home I am a working class lady so I wash only when am off ,when ever this woman realise am about to wash even if she don’t aim at washing she will pack all her things sock in water and dry on the line so that I won’t get a place to dry mine. This is a woman who is not working and always in the house. When my fiance came I thought she will stop but it has become worse when ever she sees something new on me she will make sure her husband buy the same thing for her. It came to a time that when am cooking she will intentionally pass behind my kitchen just to feel the smell of what am cooking for her to do same. It came to a time that the husband beat her because of her behavior and told her to cur her coat according to her size but she threatened she divorce him if he don’t do what she want and this poor old man keeps stressing himself and I have become his enemy because am making his wife to pressure him do what he can’t . But how can a married woman want to behave like a single lady . At times when my fiance buys me provisions, drinks etc and she sees him off load it from the car the moment she see it she will just go and attack her husband to go get her some. They were living their life when I came but now it is something different …… This is some thing happening for continues 2year now . How do I handle this rival neighbour of mine because am becoming fed up.