We love ourselves but money seems to be the big problem

We love ourselves but money seems to be the big problem

From a female blog reader:

I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years now, I really love him, he’s everything a woman could ever wish for, handsome, caring, humble, nice and loves me so much. I love his family cos they love me so much. My mum likes him too, everyone in my family likes him. But the problem is he lost his job even before we met, till today he hasn’t gotten a job, he’s been trying his best tho, applying and all, trying to do lil biz to at least get some money. I really want to settle down, I’m 31, just thinking of when he will get a job and have enough money to marry me, get a house and start making babies, cos wen he lost his job he moved back to his father’s house. Other guys that are well to do come to me every now and den but I have rejected them cos I don’t love them, and I’m getting old, really wanna settle down, sometimes I just get upset with him for no reason cos I’m really getting tired and I feel so sad about it. I’m a fresh graduate, I’m also searching for a job but I have decided to start a small business instead of sitting and waiting for a job, cos I’m getting so frustrated with d whole thing. Plz I need advice, don’t wanna leave him but I’m getting tired.