From a female blog reader:
Gud day…pls am in need of advice here, I am 20yrs nd av been in a relationship with a guy of 22 for 2yrs and some months nw, he was in anoda relationship wen we started bt he didn’t tell me, it was later after about 6 months I found out,bt he lied abt breaking up with her for 2 months before he finally left her. In an effort to mk him feel better be cos he complained about his ex being a cheat, I became a slave. It was always abt him, dere was no sex except he wntd it, if I don’t greet him every morning dey’l b problem. If I dare miss his call he won’t call for 3days, I wasn’t permitted to go out without telling him nd he’ll mk sure hez in attendance. Even if hez at fault I had to beg to mk us settle, he could talk to me anyhw in public. If he sends me airtym I must exhaust it on him, I wasn’t permitted to chk his fone bt he could chk mine. Even if I see trash on his fone he wouldn’t apologize becos I went 2ru his fone. I wasn’t allowed to b frnds with my ex bt he could tk his ex on In june we got separated, I had to leave town for my industrial training. I met dis new guy in my new town, coincidentally dey shared some frnds. I told dis guy I was in a relationship bt he refused to let go, he kept on pushing till lst month wen I fell for him. Fortunately dis guy is every opposite of my boyfriend, he treats me real gud even after I av shared his bed several times. My long term boyfriend den found out wen I went to visit him, he beat me up nd called me names, he even started posting Ill stuffs on Facebook. Lst nyt he sent me a text dat he still loves me, dat I should forgive him nd he cnt live without me. Although he wasn’t all bad, he still tried to mk me happy a few tyms, though we virtually had issues every week. …pls help me out ,should I go bk to d devil I knw or stick to d angel I don’t really know?