From a male blog reader:
Hello admin,You are doing a good job. kindly post this for me.I need to know what is going on with my relationship. I am 27 years old and dating a 33 year old guy. We have been dating for about 7months now. The challenge I have is that I don’t know much about him, we hang out and see but I have never been to his house, he stays in his father’s house and is getting his own accommodation very soon. When I asked him why he would rather we hung out and lodge, he said he is from a polygamous home and prefers his private affairs private that he has nothing to hide from me. I have never met any of his friends or siblings. I just feel awkward because all other relationships have been in were never this way, I always met people close to them. I really don’t know where this is going to though. Maybe when he gets his place it will be better and I will feel secure. He behaves well and comes around my house anytime I ask him too, though he never comes into the house. We just stay in the car and chat or hang out somewhere close. Recently, he traveled abroad without informing me, I was angry and refused to talk to him for days, he kept on apologizing to me and explained why he did that, which I accepted. Besides i know that when i begin to feel insecure, I should probably follow my instincts. You guys should just analyze please and tell me what you think. How do I know if he is serious with me?