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May 1, 2017

My so-called boyfriend never gives me money, lady cries out

My so-called boyfriend never gives me money, lady cries out

From a female blog reader:

I was "very single" until a colleague/friend hooked me with his bestie. Coincidentally, we are from same state and attend same church so we had a couple of things to talk about when we met. Eventually we started dating around September/October last year. He's a really calm guy but a humble Nd nice family. I know he likes me and I like him too but i feel he doesnt show enough care. Since we started dating, he has given me money only once in December last year when I had serious money issues. I’ve never asked him for money. He says he doesn’t like going out so when he comes over, we just talk as we agreed no sex. My problem is when he plans to see me or buy something for me or take me out and doesn’t show up as planned, he keeps mute and doesn’t say anything about it and I’m wondering this guy well so? does he expects me to ask him? I don’t ask and the matter dies. He didn’t get me a gift on my birthday but brought a cake from his sister and promised to get me a gift. Valentine come and go, nothing happened. I personally delivered a love cake to him very early. He was happy and said he’ll get me something. Until next tomorrow, I never see anything. I asked him twice and he said he’ll buy so I dropped it. His birthday was sometime this month and I just locked up. No cake, no gift, no visit sef. He’s in his late 30s and I’m wondering what his working his brain. The most scary is he’s never had a an erection???. I asked why and he said it’s anxiety. I practically touched him and tried giving him a blow job until I gave up “Johnson didn’t rise. This guy so is talking marriage and I told him even though we wont have sex now, we have to deal with this sex problem and he agreed but whenever he comes to my place, he comes with his niece. He lives in a family house so when I visit, we can’t do anything. He wants me to be close to his family but he’s not close to my family. My little sister comes and he can’t even use shame and take us out. Even TP for her to return he won’t give. Seriously, since I started dating him, my single feeling/status hasn’t changed one bit. I still pay ALL my bills. I’m tired and want to have a lengthy discussion with him

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