My husband has a secret family elseway, woman narrates

My husband has a secret family elseway, woman narrates

From a female blog reader:

I know am not suppose to be here but I need to share my story. Am married with kids but travel out of the country and met a girl whom they both two kids and when I heard about I was sad and it really affected me so much because I love my husband and I am faithful to him even till now, despite this, I forgive and try my best to make friend with the lady so we can be one family only for me to receive insult and abuse from her every time. Today is her birthday, I tried calling but she refuse to pick my calls and refuse to reply my birthday greeting. I need your advice because the more I tried disassociating myself the more my inner self keep telling me to make friend with her and am really tired of her disrespectful attitude, what do I do