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December 28, 2016

My fiance does not have a source of income. Should I ditch him?

My fiance does not have a source of income. Should I ditch him?

From a female blog reader:

Dear please keep me anonymous. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now and finally, we got engaged last year the issue is he is just not financially stable, he does not work, but he has been looking for a job for the past two years anyway, he father is a well-known man and he is influential though he does not support him financially but has been promising to help get a job for him. As for me I come from a quite wealthy family and have started my master degree recently and have moved to the states, our problems started just after I went out for my MSc degree, he keeps telling me he is broke and sometimes I even send money to him, he does not look for me often, he does not even have a decent phone so that we can chat/ video call and we don’t even talk that often and if we do I do most of the calling, and on top of all of these, he does not have a car anymore, am just having different feelings towards him now I feel like we don’t connect anymore due to the lack of communication and am worried for the future, do I keep waiting for him to get a job or get financially stable before we marry or do I just move on please help me.

 

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