From a female blog reader:
I am in my early 20s and I think I am in a problem. I started dating my boyfriend 3 months ago and I must say that he tries to be the best boyfriend ever. He gives me all that I want and more…he recently just bought me an IPhone 6s to change from my blackberry Z10. He is loving and I must say that I am deep in love already, don’t get me wrong I’m not materialistic but he is so caring and treats my like a princess. I’ve been with a guy in the past who throughout our 1 year relationship he didn’t spend up to 20k on me and he earns a big pay I didn’t look elsewhere or even bug him because I was contented.
My problem now is that my current boyfriend finds it hard to say sorry, he feels I should always beg him, he picks on little things that shouldn’t be an issue, he also puts our relationship on the line at every little thing that happens and to make it worse he has an ex or should I say another girlfriend because the girl cheated on him and she still cheats which he is aware of but he hasn’t officially ended it with her. He says I should wait a bit for him to end it with her and I’m starting to feel like I’m the side chick although I’ve met his family. But these days meeting the family is not an assurance that you are the one. Please advice me. Because I really love him and he is Muslim too which is good because he encourages me with my religion and now I take it seriously. Should I wait a little longer and pray about it or I should leave? No insults please…keep your nasty comments to yourselves. Thank you