My boyfriend does not hustle enough, girl cries out

My boyfriend does not hustle enough, girl cries out

Hide my identity please. I am 21 years old, a graduate awaiting my nysc. I have a boyfriend I’ve been dating for almost 4 years now. He is a very nice guy, he is caring,he respects me alot and I know he loves me. We almost never fight. Even after years of dating he still wakes me up with love messages he is that good. My problem is he has problems with planning himself/spending. From the beginning of our relationship I share every little money I have with him, in the early stage of our relationship he had issues at school which was delaying his service back then I had to run around even borrowed money to help him sort his problems and go for service. Its been like that from the start. Am not from a rich home, life in school wasn’t easy despite that I still shared the little money I got from home.now he has a little Job he is managing the Pay isn’t much tho but I still share my little salary with him (working while awaiting nysc). This is now giving me so much concern, he makes efforts to help himself somehow but I feel he isn’t working hard enough compered to how hard I try to fend for myself. I have been working for some months, I do ushering jobs here and there and try literally everything legal to get extra cash but he isn’t like that. I feel he just doesn’t make extra efforts.I have been working for months now but have nothing to show for it because I literally give him most of my salary, I just can’t say no when I know he needs money. I just feel he is dragging me back, I have so many plans for myself and they all involve money but with the way things are I don’t think I can do anything for myself at all. I have broken up with him so many times but he won’t let me go, he cries and begs whenever I say it’s over and I hate it when he Is like that. Am not a demanding type and I almost never depend on people, I don’t even expect anything from anyone at all. I take care of myself and that’s all I want him to do for himself too for now but he can’t. he has never taken me out for a dinner or to see a movie or anything like that and sometimes it makes me really sad. Sometimes I feel like a mother who has to displease herself to please her child. Please I need advic