From a female blog reader:
I really appreciate your good work. May God continue to uphold you. Please keep me anonymous. I just met this guy, I like him and he claims to want to spend the rest of our lives together. I told him am not a Virgin and I don’t want to celibate but I do not want sex in this relationship. He gave me his word that sex is noting because he wants a lifetime with me,he came to visit me and started talking about affection,I knew this would be messy. Only to get upset and said he have needs.
I do like him but I truly don’t want sex in this relationship,because am tired of guys liking me for wrong reasons. Please I need an advice. Am 31 and I really want to get married but don’t want to compromise my need for a marriage for another heartbreak.