From a male blog reader:
Good day and kudos for the job you’ve been doing so far. I’ve never been the type to share my stories publicly but I think I have to come out of the closet with this one.
I’m a 27 year old guy and I run a small business in Lagos. I dated a girl from Akwa Ibom about a year and a half ago and she was everything I wanted in a woman, she was pretty, she spoke well,educated, financially stable and could relate with me on all levels. It was the relationship of my dreams but when it came to sex she always wore me out. I like to have spontaneous and adventurous sex but her libido was a notch higher than mine; she never got tired even after 3 to 4 consecutive overnight rounds of sex. The next morning her hands will be in my boxers looking at my face like a dog that has been denied food. Our relationship was a distant one but whenever I’m with her we spend the whole period having marathon sex. Eventually we broke up because she couldn’t handle the distance, I suspected she was cheating but that was never the basis of our break up now fastfoward to my present relationship which seems to have come to an end. I’m dating or should I say dated a yoruba babe who complains I like sex too much (I’m a yoruba guy) and I want it all the time which leads me to ask is having sex twice/thrice a day for about 4 to 5 times a week too much? When I try to instigate foreplay or get her in the mood she calls me an ashewo or she just lays in bed like a log of wood when I’m on top of her, we’ve talked about it severally and recently She said she can’t cope with my demands and asked for a break. I told her taking a break might spell the end of us to which she replied “I don’t care” please guys I need your advise. What do you think I should do?