From a female blog reader:
I am 25years old and my boyfriend is a year older than me. We have been dating four more than 3years now and we plan on getting married next year. He keeps saying he doesn’t have enough savings and I don’t think my savings are enough too because I am currently unemployed. Now the main issue I am having is that he keeps helping this girl close to his house each time I ask he tells me it’s cause she has no one and that she needs to go to school and there’s nothing between dem but he has spent almost 200k on her yet he keeps telling me no savings although he takes care of me but he has never given me that much at once. Please should I be worried? Please I need advice should I tell him to stop helping her? So that we can save well before the wedding. And I’m thinking they have something together.. I’m I being paranoid? Thank you.